If you can make a girl come fast, chances are better she’ll be up for another round than if it takes forever for you to get her over the edge. All girls are different of course and there are times when teasing her and making her wait is the better approach. But then there are times when it would be nice to be able to make her come without it taking too much time.. maybe even for your own confidence, just to know you can.
3 Tips To Make A Girl Come Fast
1. Start Early. Girls aren’t like us. I mean, they are and they aren’t. One way they’re not is that they don’t usually get in the mood in a matter of seconds. So if at all possible, when you want to make a girl come fast, you need to start to get sex into her head long before you actually want to get her to that point. Write her a suggestive text message, leave a message on her phone, buy her a little gift that she can find somewhere around the house so she knows you’re thinking about her even when you’re out by yourself. The sooner you start getting her warmed up, the easier things will be when you get down to it.
2. Kiss Her. So I’m guessing you might have been able to figure that one out on your own, but kissing her does more than foreplay. It turns sex into an all encompassing activity. When you’re kissing her there is very little chance that she will be distracted or able to think about something else (if you can’t keep her engaged even when you’re making out with her, you might have some more serious issues.. 😉 So as much as you can try to keep kissing her no matter what else you’re doing together. With one exception..
3. Go Oral. There is simply no better way to make a girl come fast than by going down on her. Your tongue, if used properly, will be able to more than compete with all of those toys she enjoys so much. Think about it.. Instant wetness, warmth and just the right amount of friction. Licking her is quite simply not just the way to make her come the fastest, but also the best way to make a girl come fast, period.
If you’re trying to get a handle on how to make a girl come fast, you owe it to yourself to learn how to use your tongue down there. And once you know you can make her come fast, you can also enjoy figuring out how to make a woman orgasm slowly.
So you’re wondering how to lick your wife? Guess on the surface it seems pretty straightforward: You put your head between her legs and the start licking. If you think there must more to it than that, you’re on the right track. I’m not sure about you but I don’t always know for sure that my wife is enjoying my oral activities. Sometimes I think she’s aware that a man’s ego can be quite delicate when it comes to knowing that we’re pleasing our women, and it can get to feeling like she might not be getting as much out of it as I’d like her to. Here’s a few things that I’ve discovered that might help make oral sex with your woman better..
1. Chill Out. This applies to you, but more to her. Women have this uncanny ability to hold a whole bunch of things in their heads at one time. That’s one of the biggest differences between us and them. Generally when we start thinking about sex, all other thoughts go out the window. Chances are your wife’s not like that. Your girl wants to be taken care of and feel safe. It’s a tremendously intimate activity for her to have your head, and nose, down around her vagina. In a lot of ways, it’s much more intimate than intercourse. So if you want to go down on her and her to enjoy it, spend the day talking to her, checking in to see how she’s doing, and make sure she knows how much you appreciate the things she does for you. You could have the best oral skills ever, but if you can’t get her to let you down there, it won’t really matter much.
2. Build her up. Be genuine about this. Girls are as good at smelling bs as we are. They are also extremely self-conscious, especially when it comes to how they look down there. Who knows, she may have some idea of what she’s supposed to look like and have issues about not looking like that. So let her know that you like what you see, and how beautiful every last inch of her is. Everything you can do to make her feel more comfortable and at ease with you down there will help you give her a better experience the next time you’re going down on her.
3. Rinse off. She’s heard the stories about girls who smell like fish just like you have so showering first is a great way to rid her of any anxiety about how she smells and tastes. The last thing she wants is for you to think she’s nasty or disgusting, and trust me, she’s worried about that possibility. So clean up together first, maybe even help each other get clean. And then when you get to the point of tasting her, be sure to work your way back up at some point so you can whisper in her ear how good she tastes and that you enjoy discovering new ways of how to lick her.
When it comes to going down on her, even a poor effort usually gives her some kind of pleasure. I mean we’re talking about one warm, wet thing making contact with another warm, and hopefully wet, thing. It’s the perfect match. Now that doesn’t mean that we get it right all the time, or that your wife couldn’t enjoy you giving her oral sex more than she does right now. There are a couple of things you can do that are vital if you want to give her a better experience when you go south of the border.
Tips for Going Down On Her
1. Cleanliness is Next to Godliness. You’ve heard this saying I’m sure, maybe usually in reference to someone’s home. Well, the principle holds true when you’re gonna put your face between her legs. Now don’t think for a second that she takes you going down there lightly, or that she’s now wondering what you think of how she looks, and smells, and tastes. So take it upon yourself to answer those unasked questions, because if you let her assume she’ll assume something negative. Be vocal about how amazing she looks, how much you like her mild taste (women like to know they don’t taste bad, but they don’t generally want to know that they taste a lot). Take a deep breath, close your eyes, and lick your lips. A woman who knows you think she looks and smells good will be much more receptive to the whole process.
2. Don’t Let Her Mind Wander. Women aren’t like us. They can have more than one thing in their head at a time. Even with your tongue an inch away from her clitoris, she can still be wondering if you took out the trash or thinking about that newsletter she was supposed to update for her blog members. So make an effort to set the mood. Try to get her to relax as much as possible before you start to lick her. And be sure to look up and make eye contact while you’re going down on her because the fact that your face is so far away from hers means that she can more easily be distracted.
3. One Word: Variation. If you think licking her clit is all there is to giving her good oral sex, think again. Pay attention to the other parts of her anatomy too, like her outer lips, her inner thighs, even her stomach. Don’t be in a rush to get her to orgasm, unless she’s making it clear that that’s what she wants. Women like to be teased, and the longer you can excite her before she reaches climax, the stronger her orgasm will be once you do get her there.