Women are amazingly complicated, beautiful creatures and knowing how to make a woman orgasm is an amazing feeling. They are also completely different from us men and admitting to that fact is the first step in helping to get them to orgasm. Not being able to get your woman to climax can cause problems with confidence and self esteem in the bedroom, for both you and her. The good news is that chances are there’s a reasonably easy way to get your girl over the edge and here are a few tips that should help you on your way.
1. Open your mouth. And no, I’m not talking about french kissing. It’s an established fact that a woman’s largest sex organ is her brain. Sure, there are girls out there who are nymphs, but chances are that’s not the case for your girl.
So you need to find a way to get intimate with her orally, before sex ever enters the picture. If not, chances are sex won’t enter the picture, or at least not as often as you’d like it to. She needs to feel safe enough with you that she can let go. And to have an orgasm, she needs to have let her guard down. So talk to her, ask her how she feels about important things and your relationship.
2. Learn From The Master. This is not such a great tip if your woman has never had an orgasm, but assuming she has, getting her to show you how she does it for herself is one of the best ways of learning how to give her an orgasm.
You can do this a couple of different ways, but what you should avoid is making her feel like she’s on display, cause chances are she’s not gonna go for that. You could masturbate at the same time, or have her use your hand to touch herself. And remember that this is about her, so turn off the lights and talk to her while you’re doing it.
3. Go Down On Her. If you don’t lick her then you should start giving her oral sex cause studies have shown that that’s the easiest way for most women to have an orgasm. I goess when you think about it your tongue is a warm and wet object, and those two facts make it a good instrument to use on that part of her body.
Of course learning how to lick her properly is about a lot more than just licking her vagina like crazy. Take some time to learn the ins and outs of how to give her the most pleasure possible with your tongue.