How To Love Your Wife – 3 Easy Tips To Help You Love Your Wife Better

by Jerry Ponson on December 7, 2010

If you’re looking for some tips on how to love your wife, you’ve come to the right place.  I might as well come right out and say that marriage isn’t easy. Just when you think you’ve got the hang of it, you find out that it’s even more complicated than you had realized previously.  So I don’t have all the answers or anything, but maybe you can learn something from what I’ve picked up so far..

How To Love Your Wife Tips

1. Talk to each other.  This simply cannot be stressed enough.  The problem with not saying enough is that you leave room for her to make assumptions, and the problem with that is that people tend to assume the worst if you don’t give them an obvious reason not to.

So open your mouth and talk to your wife.  Ask her how she’s feeling about your relationship, be the one to bring things up and let her know how much you care by the things that you say.  Do whatever you can to keep her from having to assume anything about the way you feel about her and the two of you.  Communication is really at the heart of any good marriage.

2. Keep her on her toes.  She enjoyed the chase when you first met.  She liked that you tried hard to impress her.  That made her feel special and important, and girls love to feel special.  They love to feel like someone wants them.

If you don’t give that to her, she will find it somewhere else.  A good way to do that is to surprise her. Give her little gifts.  You don’t have to spend a lot of money, it’s really the thought that counts here.  Coming home with something just for her tells her that you were thinking about her when she wasn’t around, and that you enjoy making her feel wanted.

3. Get better in bed.  You really wanna know how to love your wife better?  Drive her crazy in the sack.  You can start by making thing more about her sexual pleasure than yours.  Be gentle though, and don’t make her feel like you’re putting her on display.

There’s a difference between actually giving her pleasure and making her feel like she’s the one who’s supposed to come first.  One of the best ways to make sex all about her pleasure is to go down on her, so try to get better at oral sex.  A lot of guys think they know what they’re doing cause they’ve watched some porn movies, but chances are that’s not really what works best for her.  She has an amazingly intricate piece of anatomy down there, so do your best to figure out how to lick her better.

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