The ability to lick your wife, to really know how to lick her, is something that will make both you and her very happy. I think for us men it hits a spot pretty deep down when we’re able to satisfy our wives so well that they moan with pleasure. Being able to do that for your woman is something every guy should want. The following is some stuff I’ve picked up along life’s journey that will help you get to where you want to go..
1. All in Good Time. Even if you know that the clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman’s body, that doesn’t mean that your tongue should head there first when you’re going down on her. Explore the other parts of her vulva, like her inner and outer lips, and her inner thighs. Anything you can do to increase her wanting you is gonna pay off later on. There’s a good chance direct contact with her clit too early will actually be uncomfortable, so make sure you get her good and warmed up first.
2. Variation is Important. Don’t stick with just one movement. Your tongue is probably the most flexible muscle in your whole body, so feel free to make different motions with it. Remember that there’s a front side and a back side, and they feel a little different. The back side is a little softer, while the front provides a bit more friction. Also, you can change the direction that you lick her in. It can be up and down, or side to side. Of course one she starts to get close, you will probably want to stick with whatever is working. But using some variety before you get to that point will help to maximize her pleasure and give her a stronger orgasm once she does get there.
3. Use Your Hands. Just because it’s called oral sex doesn’t mean you can’t use other parts of you than your tongue. It’s actually a good idea to get your fingers involved too. Many women love the feeling of being fingered at the same time as being licked, but make sure you’re sensitive to what she wants. Let her decide when she wants a finger inside her and what she wants you to do with it. Remember, going down on her is all about providing her with an amazing sexual experience.